Dating her way
If you’re seeking her approval with, “Please let me know when you’re around.” “Did you get my last text? So rather than take the risk of screwing things up by asking her out, you just continue chatting with her.
You only need to convey one thing: that meeting up will be a fun, easy going experience.
You get a girl’s number and then do nothing with it! I also know you’re afraid of getting a response because that means you have to take the next steps. It took you longer to come up with that excuse than to send a one-sentence text to her.
So sometimes it’s easier to not reach out and make excuses. And I know you didn’t magically forget, you’ve been thinking about this decision repeatedly.
The underlying idea is you are both evaluating each other as romantic prospects. She knows that if you find her attractive, you want a sexual connection. She’s not going to be surprised like, “You tried to kiss me?!? ” Attempting to kiss her is only going to reveal the truth about how she already feels — it won’t suddenly ruin a potential romantic connection.
Even when a girl says that she’s not ready and turns her cheek, let her know it’s not a big deal.
She’s usually giving you an approach invitation — her subtle way of saying, “Come talk to me.” These are your safest opportunities to meet someone with the highest chance of success. They believe you need to have an amazing, one-of-a-kind, hour-long conversation.