Values vary a lot from class to class, so, assuming your target for dating will be an upper middle to upper class woman, here are some suggestions to keep in mind:1. The concept of “waiting until marriage” is 99% gone.- If she’s ready for sex on the first date, she’s not a keeper. Don’t make noises while eating, chew with your mouth closed, don’t speak until you swallow, eat slow. Don’t freak out if she wants you to meet her parents, siblings and/or the rest of the family. About your inquiries:-"Mexican women expect to be spoiled by their men”. If you date a materialistic one, yes she will expect that.
Actually when she pronounces those words, you know she’s a keeper.- Men walk on the outer side of the sidewalk. In some more conservative circles, sex doesn’t come into play until you are a “steady” boyfriend. Manners- Keep both wrists on the table (as opposed to the USA, where it’s one hand on your lap, one on the table).- Do not rest your elbows on the table.- Your manners at the table are VERY important. Even if you have a Ph D and make millions, if you eat like an uneducated farmer you will be dumped.- Meeting her parents doesn’t mean you are committed to anything.
People always want to sweep topics like this under the rug. I'm not suggesting Mexican men are players or just want 1 thing.
My father is Mexican and they tend to v-e-r-y traditional, esp when it comes to their women.
If you date one of those from a traditional upbringing, she will find your more balanced approach on this very refreshing.
Picture this: On one of your dates, you cook dinner together, you both set the table, you both clean up the mess, and you finish by doing the dishes. As in every other culture, she will dismiss you if you try too hard, she will think you've never had a girlfriend if you are corny, and she would rather you spend your money having fun than on dead flowers rotting somewhere (flowers are expensive by the way, and you only buy them for funerals and hospital visits).
No good can come of this thread My cousin is happily married to a Mexican man.
Not all Mexicans are the same, I suggest you find a nice hick town to live in and you will meet many like minded men for you to date.
I've even broken the rules and slept with them on the 1st date..they still show interest for weeks and months afterwards. I'm not sure how far the 2 guys I'm dating now are going to go yet. I'm not limiting myself on race, but the demographics of where I live at does not provide a wide range of ethnicities to choose from.