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Today we have a guest post from Gemma, one of the lovely readers who responded to my now famous article 7 things you should know about dating a Spanish girl.
’ I pulled the polite Spanish ‘no, thanks’, expecting they would insist a few more times and then I’d say ‘oh well, go on then’.
Women were not as independent as they are nowadays.
A man who saw his dad and mother interact from yesteryear, may expect you to be the docile, submissive wife.
Besides if you are a beautiful, energetic woman who clearly has a life and he is the total opposite, he knows that eventually you will meet someone better than him, so he will attempt to end the relationship especially if you aren’t acting that interested in him.
Know what you are getting yourself into when seeking out a man half your age or more. You may admire his intellect at first, but later it may grow on your nerves because he knows so much more than you.
So if you don’t want to sound like a bossy mother and ‘do their head in’, just accept it or move on, but don’t try to stop them, they’ll just hide it from you as we hid from our parents back in the days. I have had a couple of relationships (ok, three or 4) and have a cool job as a data quality analyst in a giant pharma company in London.
Currently single and spending most of my salary on rent.
I thought he was being a bit greedy, but by day 3 I didn’t care, I was too hungry so say no and wait to be asked again. Mum is a very good cook, and a very generous one too, and she always cooks an extra portion for fear of being short but then she doesn’t want leftovers, meaning we all have to have a extra spoonful. A note from Daniel – I hope you enjoyed these tips about dating British men.
It was an adjustment every time I dated an older man.
Like men, I too am a very visual creature and I had to put aside my personal hang-ups and see the man for who he really was — a human being, period.
The older women had pushed them out of their lives and now they were desperately seeking anyone who would put up with them. I would think, “You decided to reach 40 plus years and act like a fool!
You still have nothing to show for your life.” In time, I learned more about the mid-life crisis that older men faced and it wasn’t any wonder that some were looking for anyone and anything to make them happy.
The mature men I met were really no different than the younger men except that they were more stable in their finances, moved a little slower, seemed to hold an intelligent conversation, and really seemed to be into me.